Co-Parenting Tips & Guides

Expert advice on custody tracking, co-parenting communication, and making shared parenting work.

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3/4 day swap Custom 50/50 Schedules

3/4 Day Swap Custody Schedule: Fixed Weekdays, Rotating Weekend

The 3/4 day swap keeps weekday routines locked in and rotates the rest. Here's how it works for both parents and the kids.

May 4, 2026 Read more →
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2-2-5-5 schedule 50/50 custody Schedules

2-2-5-5 Custody Schedule: Steady Weekdays, Long Weekends

The 2-2-5-5 keeps weekdays predictable while giving each parent a long stretch every other weekend. Here's how it actually works.

May 3, 2026 Read more →
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1st 3rd 5th weekends 80/20 custody Schedules

1st, 3rd & 5th Weekends Custody Schedule (80/20)

The 1st, 3rd & 5th Weekends pattern is a common 80/20 schedule used in court orders. Here's how it works.

May 1, 2026 Read more →
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Every third week 70/30 custody Schedules

Every Third Week Custody Schedule (70/30)

The Every Third Week schedule gives one parent two weeks at a time and the other parent one. Here's how it works.

April 29, 2026 Read more →
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Extended weekend 60/40 custody Schedules

Extended Weekend Custody Schedule (60/40)

The extended weekend pattern keeps weekdays with one parent and gives the other a long weekend. Here's how it works.

April 27, 2026 Read more →
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4-3 schedule 60/40 custody Schedules

4-3 Custody Schedule (60/40): A Predictable Weekly Pattern

The 4-3 schedule splits the week 60/40 — same days every week. Here's how it actually works for kids and both parents.

April 24, 2026 Read more →
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3-4-4-3 schedule 50/50 custody Schedules

3-4-4-3 Custody Schedule: A Balanced 50/50 Pattern

The 3-4-4-3 schedule alternates 3-day and 4-day blocks each week. Here's how it actually works for both parents and the kids.

April 22, 2026 Read more →
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2-2-3 schedule 50/50 custody Schedules

2-2-3 Custody Schedule: How It Works for Both Parents

The 2-2-3 schedule keeps kids in close contact with both parents through short blocks. Here's how it actually works in real life.

April 20, 2026 Read more →
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Alternating weeks 50/50 custody Schedules

Alternating Weeks Custody Schedule (Week-On / Week-Off)

Week-on / week-off is the simplest 50/50 schedule. Here's how it actually works for kids and parents — and when it's the right choice.

April 16, 2026 Read more →
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50/50 custody Joint custody Schedules

50/50 Custody Schedule: A Simple Guide for Co-Parents

What a 50/50 custody schedule looks like, how it affects kids and parents, and how SplitDay makes it easy to manage.

April 13, 2026 Read more →
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Free Printable Custody Calendar for Kids and Parents

A printable monthly custody calendar kids can read at a glance. Color-coded by parent, with simple visual cues — no app required.

April 6, 2026 Read more →
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Co-Parenting Communication Tips That Actually Work

Practical, low-drama techniques to communicate with your co-parent about the kids — what to say, what to skip, and what to write down.

March 27, 2026 Read more →
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How to Track Custody Days Effectively in 2026

Stop relying on memory or screenshots. Here's how to track custody days cleanly so you have real records when they matter.

March 18, 2026 Read more →
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Best Co-Parenting Apps in 2026: Which One Actually Helps

A practical comparison of the top co-parenting apps in 2026 — what each does well, where they fall short, and which fits your situation.

March 3, 2026 Read more →
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custody schedule schedule maker Schedules

Custody Schedule Maker: How to Build Your Parenting Pattern

How to design a custody schedule that fits your family — choose a template, adjust for school and work, and lock it in without spreadsheets.

February 14, 2026 Read more →