Shared Custody Around the World: Garde Alternée, Wechselmodell, Custodia Compartida and More

SplitDay Team 8 min read
International Shared custody Co-parenting terms
A world map with custody-related icons and charts marking several countries with shared-custody arrangements

Parents living through the same experience call it by completely different names depending on where they live: garde alternée in France, Wechselmodell in Germany, custodia compartida in Spain and much of Latin America. The concept underneath is largely the same — a child splits their time living between both parents' homes on some kind of regular rotation — but the legal weight of the term, how common the arrangement actually is, and even the closest English equivalent, vary by country. This is a plain-language tour of the vocabulary, not a legal guide. Family law is set at the country level, and often regionally within a country, so confirm anything that affects your case with a local family-law professional.

For what each country's statute actually says, and how its courts apply it, see Shared custody law by country: presumptions, courts and recent changes.

TermLanguage / regionLiteral meaningClosest English equivalent
Garde alternée / résidence alternéeFrench (France)"Alternating custody" / "alternating residence"Joint physical custody
WechselmodellGerman (Germany, Austria)"Alternating model"Joint physical custody
ResidenzmodellGerman (Germany, Austria)"Residence model"Primary residence + parenting time
Custodia compartidaSpanish (Spain & Latin America)"Shared custody"Joint custody
Guarda compartilhadaPortuguese (Brazil, Portugal)"Shared guardianship"Joint (legal) custody
Växelvis boende / varannan veckaSwedish (Sweden)"Alternating living" / "every other week"Alternating-week custody
Delt bostedNorwegian (Norway)"Shared / divided residence"Joint physical custody
Střídavá péčeCzech (Czech Republic)"Alternating care"Joint physical custody
Opieka naprzemiennaPolish (Poland)"Alternating care"Joint physical custody
Co-ouderschapDutch (Netherlands, Belgium)"Co-parenthood"Shared parenting
משמורת משותפת (mishmoret meshutefet)Hebrew (Israel)"Joint / shared custody"Joint custody

France — Garde alternée / résidence alternée

Garde alternée, sometimes called résidence alternée in the more precise legal vocabulary French courts use, describes an arrangement where a child's official residence alternates between both parents' homes, most commonly on a week-on/week-off basis. French family courts have generally leaned toward preserving both parents' involvement after separation, and alternating residence is a well-established, mainstream option rather than an exception — though a judge still decides based on the child's situation, and equal alternating weeks is far from the only outcome.

Read the law page: Shared custody law in France (résidence alternée): what the rules say in 2026

Germany & Austria — Wechselmodell / Residenzmodell

Wechselmodell ("alternating model") is the German-language term for a shared-residence arrangement where a child spends roughly equal time in each parent's home. It sits alongside the more traditional Residenzmodell ("residence model"), in which the child has one primary home and the other parent has scheduled parenting time (Umgangsrecht). German courts have historically treated the Residenzmodell as the default, though the Wechselmodell has gained clearer legal recognition in recent years. Practice still varies by court and region, so what's typical in one German city can differ from another.

Read the law page: Shared custody law in Germany (Wechselmodell): what the rules say in 2026

Spain — Custodia compartida

Custodia compartida ("shared custody") is used across Spain and most Spanish-speaking Latin American countries to describe joint physical custody, where both parents share meaningful residential time with the child — as opposed to custodia exclusiva or custodia monoparental (sole custody), with a visitation schedule for the other parent. Spanish family law has moved toward treating shared custody as a legitimate, and in some autonomous communities preferred, arrangement over the past couple of decades, though the exact standard and how courts apply it still differs by region within the country.

Read the law page: Shared custody law in Spain (custodia compartida): what the rules say in 2026

Brazil & Portugal — Guarda compartilhada

Guarda compartilhada ("shared guardianship" or "shared custody") is the Portuguese-language term used in both Brazil and Portugal. In Brazil, a change to the civil code made shared custody the arrangement judges must apply by default whenever both parents are fit to care for the child, unless one parent doesn't want it or there's a specific reason it wouldn't serve the child's interests — a notably strong legal presumption toward shared custody compared with many other countries. It's worth noting that guarda compartilhada in Brazilian law refers primarily to shared decision-making responsibility and doesn't automatically mean an equal 50/50 living-time split; the residential schedule is set separately.

Read the law page: Shared custody law in Brazil (guarda compartilhada): what the rules say in 2026

Sweden — Växelvis boende / Varannan vecka

Växelvis boende ("alternating living") is the formal Swedish term for a child living roughly equally with both parents after separation. In everyday conversation, Swedish parents are more likely to say varannan vecka — literally "every other week" — because the alternating-week schedule is so common it has become the colloquial shorthand for the arrangement itself. Sweden is often cited as having one of the higher rates of this kind of arrangement among separated families with children, reflecting both legal support for shared parenting and practical factors like extensive parental-leave norms — though exact prevalence figures vary by source and by how "shared" is defined.

Read the law page: Shared custody law in Sweden (växelvis boende): what the rules say in 2026

Norway — Delt bosted

Delt bosted ("shared" or "divided residence") is the Norwegian equivalent of joint physical custody, distinguished from fast bosted ("fixed residence"), where the child has one primary home. Norwegian law recognizes delt bosted as a valid arrangement parents can agree to or a court can order, generally expecting a fairly high degree of cooperation between parents given the frequent transitions involved. As in neighboring Sweden, alternating-week patterns are common in practice, though the legal term itself doesn't specify any particular time split.

Read the law page: Shared custody law in Norway (delt bosted): what the rules say in 2026

Czech Republic — Střídavá péče

Střídavá péče ("alternating care") is the word Czech parents use when a child's residence alternates between both parents' homes on a recurring cycle. It is no longer a statutory category: the amendment in force since 1 January 2026 (zákon č. 268/2025 Sb.) rewrote § 907 of the občanský zákoník and deleted the named forms of care — výlučná (exclusive), střídavá (alternating) and společná (joint) — altogether. Where the parents agree, the court now rules that the child remains in the care of both of them and fixes no shares; where they do not, the court determines each parent's scope of care (rozsah péče) in the child's interest. The vocabulary outlived the statute: střídavá péče is still what parents, and any Czech guidance written before 2026, call it.

Read the law page: Shared custody law in the Czech Republic (střídavá péče): what changed on 1 January 2026

Poland — Opieka naprzemienna

Opieka naprzemienna ("alternating care") describes the same alternating-residence concept in Poland. It's a comparatively newer and less standardized option in Polish family courts than in some neighboring countries, and courts generally weigh factors like the parents' ability to communicate and their geographic proximity before ordering it. Polish practice more commonly defaults to one parent holding primary residential care with a defined contact schedule for the other parent, though opieka naprzemienna is increasingly discussed and requested.

Read the law page: Shared custody law in Poland (opieka naprzemienna): what the rules say in 2026

Netherlands — Co-ouderschap

Co-ouderschap ("co-parenthood") is the Dutch umbrella term for shared parenting arrangements after separation, used broadly rather than referring to one specific schedule. There is no co-ouderschap statute in Dutch law: the child has a right to equivalent care and upbringing from both parents (art. 1:247 BW), but it is the parents who set the division of care and upbringing tasks, in the parenting plan (ouderschapsplan) that a divorce petition must contain (art. 815 Rv). No official statistic records how often roughly equal alternating arrangements are chosen — a person can be registered at only one address, so Statistics Netherlands (CBS) cannot observe alternating residence at all.

Read the law page: Shared custody law in the Netherlands (co-ouderschap): what the rules say in 2026

Israel — משמורת משותפת (Mishmoret meshutefet)

Mishmoret meshutefet ("joint" or "shared custody") is the Hebrew term for shared custody in Israel, as distinct from sole custody with a visitation arrangement (hesderei re'iya) for the other parent. Israeli family law and courts have moved over the past couple of decades toward more readily recognizing and awarding shared custody arrangements, including equal time-sharing in appropriate cases, though the country's civil family courts and, for certain matters involving Jewish couples, rabbinical courts both play a role, and outcomes are highly case-specific.

Read the law page: Shared custody law in Israel (mishmoret meshutefet): what the rules say in 2026

The concept is more universal than the vocabulary

Despite the different words and legal traditions, the underlying practice — a child dividing meaningful time between two homes after parents separate — has spread widely, and terminology differences shouldn't be mistaken for the arrangement itself being unusual anywhere on this list. If your family has moved countries, or is bilingual, you may find yourself needing several of these words for the same situation. Our custody & co-parenting glossary covers the US-focused vocabulary in more depth — think of this guide as its international companion — and our custody statistics roundup has sourced, country-by-country figures where they exist.

Frequently asked questions

Is "joint custody" the same everywhere?

No. The words are similar but the legal meaning, how common the arrangement is, and how courts apply it differ by country and often by region within a country. "Joint custody" in the US usually distinguishes legal from physical custody; several of the terms above, like Brazil's guarda compartilhada, primarily describe shared decision-making responsibility rather than an equal time split. Always check the specific legal meaning where you live.

Which countries have the highest rates of alternating-residence custody?

Nordic countries — particularly Sweden and Norway — and France are commonly cited as having comparatively high rates of children living in alternating-residence arrangements after parental separation, though exact figures vary by study, by year, and by how researchers define "shared" or "alternating" residence.

Do I need a lawyer in each country if we live in different countries?

If you and your co-parent live in different countries, custody questions get more complex quickly, potentially involving international treaties such as the Hague Convention on child abduction. This is a situation where consulting a family-law attorney with cross-border experience matters far more than knowing the local terminology.

Is week-on/week-off the standard schedule everywhere shared custody is common?

It's common, but not universal. Some countries and families use 2-2-3 patterns, unequal splits that still qualify as "shared," or arrangements tied to the school calendar. The terms in this guide describe the general legal category, not one specific rotation.

Why doesn't this guide cover every country?

Family law is set nationally, and often regionally, in nearly every country, so a complete list would run into hundreds of jurisdictions. This guide covers ten languages and regions where a distinct, commonly used term exists — a starting vocabulary, not a substitute for local legal advice.

One calendar, any language

Wherever you live and whatever the local term is, SplitDay tracks the actual schedule — alternating weeks, 2-2-3, or anything else — so both parents and the kids can see it clearly. Free to start.

Living between countries, or explaining your arrangement to family abroad? Share this guide — sometimes the easiest way to explain a custody schedule is to point at the word for it.

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