Shared custody law by country: presumptions, courts and recent changes

By Amit Carmon, founder of SplitDay

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None of the countries covered in this guide has a statute that presumes equal parenting time. Seven US states do: Kentucky, Arkansas, West Virginia, Florida, Missouri, Mississippi and Louisiana carry a statutory presumption or command of equal or joint parenting time. Even those are rebuttable or carry an express exception, so not one of them guarantees a 50/50 schedule. Everywhere else a judge decides on the individual child, guided by a standard and a list of factors rather than by a default split.

Most of these systems do not answer the question how much time do I get in a statute at all. Family law is set nationally, and in the United States not even that — there is no federal custody statute, only separate state codes, which is why the United States has its own page and each of those seven states has one as well. The same word can also carry different legal weight on either side of a border: a defined status in one country's code, and in the next a word parents and lawyers use that the legislature never wrote down.

Where each country stands, in one line: no statute presumes equal or shared care in Germany, Spain, Sweden, Norway, Poland, the Netherlands, the Czech Republic, Israel, France or Denmark. Three of those carry a distinctive twist rather than a presumption — the French code names alternating residence and a single home as two equal options for the judge to choose between, Israel keeps a rebuttable proviso favouring the mother of a child under six, and Denmark's delt bopæl is a defined legal status parents can reach only by agreement. Brazil applies shared custody where the parents do not agree and both are fit, but divides contact time in a balanced way rather than equally. In the United States it is state law, and seven states presume or command equal or joint parenting time.

The index table on this page gives one row per country: the term parents there actually use, a one-line answer on whether any statute presumes equal or shared care, and the date that page was last checked. Every page names the article it relies on, links to the official text, labels a draft as a draft, and carries its own review date. What the terms literally mean is a separate question, covered in shared custody around the world.

Shared custody law, country by country

CountryLocal termPresumption of equal or shared care?Last reviewed
Brazilguarda compartilhadaShared custody applied; not equal time
Czech Republicstřídavá péčeNo presumption, no named model
Denmarkdeleordning / delt bopælNo presumption; agreement only
Francerésidence alternéeNo presumption; two options, judge chooses
GermanyWechselmodellNo statutory presumption; court decides case-by-case
Israelמשמורת משותפת (mishmoret meshutefet)No presumption; under-6 mother proviso
Netherlandsco-ouderschapNo equal-time presumption; joint authority
Norwaydelt bostedNo presumption of shared care
Polandopieka naprzemiennaNo statutory presumption
Spaincustodia compartidaNo presumption; court decides case-by-case
Swedenväxelvis boendeNo presumption of equal care
United Statesjoint custody / equal parenting timeSeven states; no federal rule

How to read the statuses on these pages

Three labels do most of the work in the dated change lists, and the difference between them decides whether something affects you now, later, or possibly never.

  • In force — the rule applies today. Germany's provisions on parental responsibility and contact sit in the Bürgerliches Gesetzbuch and apply as written; they name no care model and prescribe no division of the child's time, and that is the law a German court works from this morning.
  • Draft or pending — a text exists, and that is all it is. Germany's Kindschaftsrechtsmodernisierungsgesetz (KiMoG) is a ministerial draft: published in May 2026, consultation closed in July 2026, and at the last review still a draft with no cabinet decision behind it. A draft has no effective date, so these pages never give it one.
  • Not in force yet — adopted, signed, and still not the law anyone is living under. Norway adopted an entirely new barnelova on 20 June 2025 (lov nr. 40), whose § 7-1 would drop the “special grounds” condition on shared residence. Commencement is left to the King and none has been set, so a Norwegian court still applies the 1981 Act: where the parents disagree it must place the child with one of them, and may order delt bustad only if special grounds exist.

For a parent, a draft and an adopted-but-uncommenced act look identical — nothing has changed — but the reasons differ, and so does the chance that it ever will. Each page keeps the label the official record uses, dates every entry and links its source, so you can see at a glance whether you are reading law or a proposal.

Frequently asked questions

What does it mean when a country presumes equal or shared care?

A presumption is a starting point written into the statute: the court begins from that arrangement, and someone has to give it a reason not to. It is not a guarantee. Every presumption in this section can be displaced — by evidence, by a domestic-violence finding, or by the parents' own agreement — and some reach only a first order and not a later change to it. The country or state page says which kind it is.

If there is no presumption, how do courts actually decide?

Case by case, on the individual child. These statutes hand the judge a standard rather than a schedule — the child's welfare, the child's best interests, what appears desirable in the child's interest — usually with a list of factors to weigh. Cooperation between the parents carries real weight in several of them: German case law requires an existing ability to communicate, and the Swedish preparatory works set a higher bar for alternating residence than for joint custody. A presumption tells you where a court starts, not where it ends.

Does shared custody mean the children spend half their time with each parent?

Often not, and in several countries the two are formally separate questions. Brazilian law makes guarda compartilhada the regime a judge applies where the parents do not agree and both are fit, yet the statute divides contact time de forma equilibrada — in a balanced way — and the Superior Tribunal de Justiça has said it does not require equal time. Dutch law gives a child a right to equivalent care from both parents; the Hoge Raad has held that this does not oblige a 50-50 split of time.

Why does the same word mean different things in different countries?

Because the words and the statutes grew up separately. Wechselmodell appears nowhere in the German civil code, växelvis boende nowhere in the Swedish Föräldrabalken, and opieka naprzemienna nowhere in the Polish family code: all three are what parents and practitioners say, not what the law defines. Czech střídavá péče was a statutory category until the end of 2025 and is now only the everyday word. Denmark's delt bopæl, by contrast, is a defined legal status that parents can reach only by agreement.

How often does custody law change, and how does this section keep up?

Unevenly. Core provisions can sit still for years: no Dutch amendment has touched the authority, contact and main-residence articles since January 2023, and no Brazilian statute has amended the shared-custody articles since 2023. Meanwhile drafts and bills accumulate in Germany, France and Poland without becoming law. Each page lists only dated, verified changes, newest first, each with a link to its official source, and states the date it was last reviewed.

Is this legal advice?

No. It is a reference: what a named statute says, which court applies it, and what changed and when, with a link to the official text so you can check it yourself. It does not tell you what to do, it cannot account for your facts, and it says nothing about how a particular judge will decide. Before relying on any of it, take it to a family-law professional licensed where your case would be heard.

Sources

  1. Bürgerliches Gesetzbuch, Book 4 — parental responsibility and contact (gesetze-im-internet.de) Official source
    https://www.gesetze-im-internet.de/bgb/ — accessed
  2. Kindschaftsrechtsmodernisierungsgesetz (KiMoG) — legislative dossier (BMJV) Official source
    https://www.bmjv.de/SharedDocs/Gesetzgebungsverfahren/DE/2026_KiMoG.html — accessed
  3. Referentenentwurf KiMoG, 11 May 2026 — the draft text (BMJV, PDF) Official source
    https://www.bmjv.de/SharedDocs/Downloads/DE/Gesetzgebung/RefE/RefE_KiMoG.pdf?__blob=publicationFile&v=3 — accessed
  4. BGH XII ZB 601/15, 1 February 2017 — paritätisches Wechselmodell (Bundesgerichtshof) Official source
    https://www.bundesgerichtshof.de/SharedDocs/Entscheidungen/DE/Zivilsenate/XII_ZS/2015/XII_ZB_601-15.pdf?__blob=publicationFile&v=1 — accessed
  5. Lov 20. juni 2025 nr. 40, the new barnelova — status “Ikke i kraft” (Lovdata) Official source
    https://lovdata.no/lov/2025-06-20-40 — accessed
  6. Barnelova (lov 8. april 1981 nr. 7) § 36 — where the child is to live permanently (Lovdata) Official source
    https://lovdata.no/lov/1981-04-08-7/%C2%A736 — accessed
  7. Föräldrabalken (1949:381), 6 kap. (Regeringskansliets rättsdatabaser) Official source
    https://rkrattsbaser.gov.se/sfst?bet=1949:381 — accessed
  8. Prop. 2005/06:99 “Nya vårdnadsregler” — preparatory works on växelvist boende (riksdagen.se) Official source
    https://data.riksdagen.se/dokument/GT0399.html — accessed
  9. Burgerlijk Wetboek Boek 1, art. 1:247 — equivalent care by both parents (wetten.overheid.nl) Official source
    https://wetten.overheid.nl/BWBR0002656/2025-07-05 — accessed
  10. Hoge Raad 21 May 2010, ECLI:NL:HR:2010:BL7407 — equal standing is not a 50-50 split (Rechtspraak.nl) Official source
    https://data.rechtspraak.nl/uitspraken/content?id=ECLI:NL:HR:2010:BL7407 — accessed
  11. Amendment history of art. 1:247 BW — Wijzigingenoverzicht (wetten.overheid.nl) Official source
    https://wetten.overheid.nl/BWBR0002656/2025-07-05/0/Boek1/Titeldeel14/Afdeling1/Artikel247/informatie — accessed
  12. Código Civil (Lei nº 10.406/2002), arts. 1.583–1.584 — guarda compartilhada (Planalto) Official source
    https://www.planalto.gov.br/ccivil_03/leis/2002/l10406compilada.htm — accessed
  13. Lei nº 14.713 of 30 October 2023 — the last amendment to art. 1.584 (Planalto) Official source
    https://www.planalto.gov.br/ccivil_03/_ato2023-2026/2023/lei/L14713.htm — accessed
  14. STJ, decision of 23 June 2021 — shared custody does not require equal time (Superior Tribunal de Justiça) Official source
    https://www.stj.jus.br/sites/portalp/Paginas/Comunicacao/Noticias/23062021-Guarda-compartilhada-e-possivel-mesmo-que-pais-morem-em-cidades-diferentes.aspx — accessed
  15. Kodeks rodzinny i opiekuńczy — Polish Family and Guardianship Code, consolidated text (ISAP) Official source
    https://isap.sejm.gov.pl/isap.nsf/download.xsp/WDU19640090059/U/D19640059Lj.pdf — accessed
  16. Act No. 268/2025 Sb. — the amendment that dropped střídavá péče from the code, in force 1 January 2026 (zakonyprolidi.cz) Official source
    https://www.zakonyprolidi.cz/cs/2025-268 — accessed
  17. Forældreansvarsloven, LBK nr 662 af 01/07/2026 — § 18 a delt bopæl (retsinformation.dk, PDF) Official source
    https://www.retsinformation.dk/eli/lta/2026/662/pdf — accessed
  18. Lov nr. 962 af 26/06/2020 “Afskaffelse af tvungen delt bopæl” (retsinformation.dk, PDF) Official source
    https://www.retsinformation.dk/eli/lta/2020/962/pdf — accessed
  19. Code civil art. 373-2-9 — alternating residence or a single home (Légifrance) Official source
    https://www.legifrance.gouv.fr/codes/article_lc/LEGIARTI000032207454 — accessed
  20. Capacity and Guardianship Law, 5722-1962, s. 25 (nevo, consolidated text) Official source
    https://www.nevo.co.il/law_html/law00/70325.htm — accessed
  21. KRS 403.270 — Kentucky's equal parenting-time presumption (Kentucky Legislature) Official source
    https://apps.legislature.ky.gov/law/statutes/statute.aspx?id=57567 — accessed
  22. Arkansas Act 604 of 2021, Ark. Code Ann. § 9-13-101 (Arkansas General Assembly) Official source
    https://arkleg.state.ar.us/Home/FTPDocument?path=/ACTS/2021R/Public/ACT604.pdf — accessed
  23. W. Va. Code § 48-9-102a — equal (50-50) custodial allocation, SB 463 as enrolled (West Virginia Legislature) Official source
    https://www.wvlegislature.gov/Bill_Status/bills_text.cfm?billdoc=SB463+SUB1+ENR.htm&yr=2022&sesstype=RS&i=463 — accessed
  24. Fla. Stat. § 61.13 — equal time-sharing of a minor child (Florida Legislature) Official source
    https://www.leg.state.fl.us/statutes/index.cfm?App_mode=Display_Statute&URL=0000-0099/0061/Sections/0061.13.html — accessed
  25. RSMo § 452.375 — equal or approximately equal parenting time (Revisor of Statutes) Official source
    https://revisor.mo.gov/main/OneSection.aspx?section=452.375 — accessed
  26. Miss. Code Ann. § 93-5-24 as enacted by HB 1662 (2026) (Mississippi Legislature) Official source
    https://billstatus.ls.state.ms.us/documents/2026/html/HB/1600-1699/HB1662SG.htm — accessed
  27. La. R.S. 9:335 as amended by Act 605 of 2026 (Louisiana Legislature) Official source
    https://legis.la.gov/legis/Law.aspx?d=107527 — accessed

A necessary disclaimer

This page is general legal information, not legal advice, and a short summary of a statute is never a substitute for reading it with someone who knows your case. Custody rules differ by country — and in the United States by state — and they change: a bill passes, a court reinterprets a provision, an adopted act waits years for a commencement date. Every page in this section carries the date it was last reviewed, and nothing here is guaranteed to still be accurate after that date. Nothing on this page creates an attorney-client relationship. For guidance about your own situation, consult a qualified family-law professional licensed where your case would be heard.

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